So, last month, this farker came and asked me for a RM2K loan. Of course I am too kind for my own good and tried to help him out. I loaned him half of that, and that was what I could spare.
Yesterday, he phoned me, but I didn't pick up his call, because I told him already, don't call me as he likes, because I don't want to answer phone calls when I am working or when I'm doing stuff with the family.
Knowing the rules, he still dialled my number and understandably, I was pissed. So after that, he saw me on the internet and I was busy, and told him so. Unbusy people wouldn't only get four hours of sleep, would they?
Getting that little sleep, I am never in the mood for idle talk, so he thought I was in a bad mood, but actually I am not in a bad mood. I just am so pressed for time, I don't have anymore time to entertain people with small talk.
Anyway, I later found out that the purpose of his call was to get a second RM1K loan. You say I ultra pissed or not? What would happen if he asked me for a loan in front of my family or colleagues?
Here I am working the shit out of myself, there he, holding a high (high in my books) paying job and has no shame to come and ask for a loan from a girl who is even younger than him with a job only a fraction of his pay.
Damn.. this time I told him: NO more. He thinks my money grow on trees or something... he knows my financial commitments and yet he comes and spoil my day. I really am starting to hate him already.
Sometimes eventhough I know someone is "useless", I think nothing of being a friend to him. But I realise, sometimes this may not be what I wish for, but it is for the best. I don't know how many more times I can hear him ask for a loan before I am ready to kill him.
Come on la.. every one's hard pressed for money. I don't even spend anything on myself. UUgghh the problem is, he knows that I am very good with managing my finances, even though I may not earn much, and I am very good with saving up my money. Pah! This kind of friend I don't need.
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Yesterday, he phoned me, but I didn't pick up his call, because I told him already, don't call me as he likes, because I don't want to answer phone calls when I am working or when I'm doing stuff with the family.
Knowing the rules, he still dialled my number and understandably, I was pissed. So after that, he saw me on the internet and I was busy, and told him so. Unbusy people wouldn't only get four hours of sleep, would they?
Getting that little sleep, I am never in the mood for idle talk, so he thought I was in a bad mood, but actually I am not in a bad mood. I just am so pressed for time, I don't have anymore time to entertain people with small talk.
Anyway, I later found out that the purpose of his call was to get a second RM1K loan. You say I ultra pissed or not? What would happen if he asked me for a loan in front of my family or colleagues?
Here I am working the shit out of myself, there he, holding a high (high in my books) paying job and has no shame to come and ask for a loan from a girl who is even younger than him with a job only a fraction of his pay.
Damn.. this time I told him: NO more. He thinks my money grow on trees or something... he knows my financial commitments and yet he comes and spoil my day. I really am starting to hate him already.
Sometimes eventhough I know someone is "useless", I think nothing of being a friend to him. But I realise, sometimes this may not be what I wish for, but it is for the best. I don't know how many more times I can hear him ask for a loan before I am ready to kill him.
Come on la.. every one's hard pressed for money. I don't even spend anything on myself. UUgghh the problem is, he knows that I am very good with managing my finances, even though I may not earn much, and I am very good with saving up my money. Pah! This kind of friend I don't need.
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4 comments:
that sucks. it is hard to reject someone's request sometimes, but we just have to learn to do it.
Yeah lor... although I can turn him down, I hate to do it because these things create bad feelings and I don't like it.
Turn him the fuck down and tell him to go screw himself.
Definitely get back your 1k as soon as you can. Harrass him to get it back even.
Don't let good for nothing men take advantage of your better nature. To me, if a guy (or a girl) cannot manage their finances and comes to ask me for money unless it's an extenuating circumstance like his mother needs open heart surgery, there's no effin way I'd give it to him/her.
Look, if they get to the point where they need to borrow money you know they will never get organized enough to pay you back.
you don't need friends like that. It's better to be more selective with who you spend your time and money with.
I already turned down.
I totally agree with you about people who can't manage their finances normally, not taking into account those who are unfortunately saddled with medical expenses.
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