The other day, I had the chance to talk to my friend, I mean, really talk. She was rather unhappy because her boyfriend refused to leave the wife to marry her. Aiyoh... I wonder what was wrong with her. If she is prepared to be his mistress, then why complain? When she met him, she already knows that he is married.
To me, if a man is an adult, I would ASSUME that he is already married or at least have a girlfriend.
So, this friend of mine, I think she expected him to leave the wife. I guess the man must have made such empty promises as well.
However, personally, if a man is leaving his wife and kids for me, I DON'T WANT HIM! Not because I think I am not as good as the wife but it tells a lot about the man's character to be able to leave his wife, a woman he once loved and perhaps still does. If he could do this to her, he could do this to me or any other woman for that matter.
Do you want a man who may one day leave you for a third woman? I guess nobody does. However, as the saying goes, love in blind but from what I understand most man will not leave his wife because men want the best of both worlds; to have a wife at home and to have a mistress outside.
And in the end, if men are being dumped by the mistress, after she has cleared his bank accounts, they will return to the first family, penniless with tail between his legs.
I am not being judgmental and I am not condemning my friend, but I believe that when she enters into such a relationship, she KNOWS what is in store for her already, so why be disappointed, right?
To me, if a man is an adult, I would ASSUME that he is already married or at least have a girlfriend.
So, this friend of mine, I think she expected him to leave the wife. I guess the man must have made such empty promises as well.
However, personally, if a man is leaving his wife and kids for me, I DON'T WANT HIM! Not because I think I am not as good as the wife but it tells a lot about the man's character to be able to leave his wife, a woman he once loved and perhaps still does. If he could do this to her, he could do this to me or any other woman for that matter.
Do you want a man who may one day leave you for a third woman? I guess nobody does. However, as the saying goes, love in blind but from what I understand most man will not leave his wife because men want the best of both worlds; to have a wife at home and to have a mistress outside.
And in the end, if men are being dumped by the mistress, after she has cleared his bank accounts, they will return to the first family, penniless with tail between his legs.
I am not being judgmental and I am not condemning my friend, but I believe that when she enters into such a relationship, she KNOWS what is in store for her already, so why be disappointed, right?
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