... like it is in the dumps, I received news that my friend went through a miscarriage. She was already into the third month of pregnancy. It must have been painful physically and emotionally for her and yet, what could we do to help? I guess, it's a big fat nothing.
Moreover, she being there and her family and friends are over here, the distance is the killer too. It is really pitiful and sad that one has to go through this all alone.
As a consolation, I read before that a miscarriage occurs because there is something wrong with the embryo, so it is a natural force that makes it fall off.
We can look at it in a negative way and think it could have been a baby, and we could look at it in a positive light and think that if it were carried to full term, the baby would not have been well. That's why they miscarry in the first place.
I guess the only thing a couple who has experienced this is to put it behind and try for another baby.
Moreover, she being there and her family and friends are over here, the distance is the killer too. It is really pitiful and sad that one has to go through this all alone.
As a consolation, I read before that a miscarriage occurs because there is something wrong with the embryo, so it is a natural force that makes it fall off.
We can look at it in a negative way and think it could have been a baby, and we could look at it in a positive light and think that if it were carried to full term, the baby would not have been well. That's why they miscarry in the first place.
I guess the only thing a couple who has experienced this is to put it behind and try for another baby.
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