My friend, a guy, told me that Carol Chu, Andy Lau's girlfriend, is really stupid to tag along with him for so many years without a status as wife. While I think that they are already legally married, who really cares when it's a relationship between two consenting adults, right?
I do feel pity that they are not able to be more open about their relationship as husband and wife if at all they are already married. And I know that Andy Lau fears that his popularity will drop if he comes out publicly about his marriage or many some crazed Japanese girl fan would kill herself upon hearing the news.
My friend, on the other hand, thinks that they are not married and that Andy Lau doesn't want to be married because he wants freedom. I told him that a man's marital status makes no difference on the freedom that he has. It all boils down to an individual. If his heart is not at home, it is not. Would he care that he is married already or still single? No, right?
Also, I told my friend that most of the guys that he meets for a beer at night, his 'gang', are already married. Does that make a difference to them? No, right?
I do feel pity that they are not able to be more open about their relationship as husband and wife if at all they are already married. And I know that Andy Lau fears that his popularity will drop if he comes out publicly about his marriage or many some crazed Japanese girl fan would kill herself upon hearing the news.
My friend, on the other hand, thinks that they are not married and that Andy Lau doesn't want to be married because he wants freedom. I told him that a man's marital status makes no difference on the freedom that he has. It all boils down to an individual. If his heart is not at home, it is not. Would he care that he is married already or still single? No, right?
Also, I told my friend that most of the guys that he meets for a beer at night, his 'gang', are already married. Does that make a difference to them? No, right?
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