A few days ago, I really had to do something badly but I was unable to. I called up a friend to help me out but he talk 3, talk 4 that I got so mad I cut of the phone line. I know I was rude but I was so disappointed that he would not help me although I know that he could if he wanted to!
Also, since he did not want to help, I did not want to waste time continue talking to him as I had to rush the matter and do it by myself within the hour. There was no one else to help me except this person and he was not going to.
I really wanted to say something hurtful but there was no point because it would only cause a strain to our friendship. That was also why I cut short the conversation!
What saved the matter was that I finally got the matter settled by myself, and before I managed to send him a text message informing him out of courtesy, he called me and asked me if I managed to get it down. I felt better thanks to his call.
You know, people can do things for me a thousand times but if they do not help me with WHAT REALLY MATTERS, I will feel very disappointed! Like this guy. I felt as if he does not care, does not understand what I really want and what is really important to me.
Thankfully the strain has been resolved but I now know that I would not be depending on him if another similar crisis crops up.
Also, since he did not want to help, I did not want to waste time continue talking to him as I had to rush the matter and do it by myself within the hour. There was no one else to help me except this person and he was not going to.
I really wanted to say something hurtful but there was no point because it would only cause a strain to our friendship. That was also why I cut short the conversation!
What saved the matter was that I finally got the matter settled by myself, and before I managed to send him a text message informing him out of courtesy, he called me and asked me if I managed to get it down. I felt better thanks to his call.
You know, people can do things for me a thousand times but if they do not help me with WHAT REALLY MATTERS, I will feel very disappointed! Like this guy. I felt as if he does not care, does not understand what I really want and what is really important to me.
Thankfully the strain has been resolved but I now know that I would not be depending on him if another similar crisis crops up.
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