When I was schooling, I never had a best friend. Good friends, yes. There were many and I could socialise with everyone whether they were from my class, from a different year, from a better or a worse class, I was able to befriend many people.
However, I never had a best friend. Some years later, which I still remember till this day, there was an interview with Dato' Seri Rafidah Aziz that came out in the local newspaper and she also said that she never had a best friend.
She said that if she had one, she would never have climbed so high up in the political ladder. According to her logic, you may be best friends now, but who knows what level of friendship it will be at some time in the future?
I am also of this logic. Therefore, I never tell people any deep and dark secrets and because of this, I have been accused of not being friendly enough, not SHARING. So be it.
There are many people that I can do without in life. Whether some one is dead or alive, talk to me or not, I really don't care. There have been times that I realise, though sometimes I do forget, that we CAN survive alone. We do not really NEED anyone for moral support or anything.
And there are times that I realise that a person many act good in front of you but are waiting for the slightest opportunity to back stab you. I have been conditioned to KNOW things like that because my family has many enemies. Some people may think that I am paranoid but I have a "sense".
However, I never had a best friend. Some years later, which I still remember till this day, there was an interview with Dato' Seri Rafidah Aziz that came out in the local newspaper and she also said that she never had a best friend.
She said that if she had one, she would never have climbed so high up in the political ladder. According to her logic, you may be best friends now, but who knows what level of friendship it will be at some time in the future?
I am also of this logic. Therefore, I never tell people any deep and dark secrets and because of this, I have been accused of not being friendly enough, not SHARING. So be it.
There are many people that I can do without in life. Whether some one is dead or alive, talk to me or not, I really don't care. There have been times that I realise, though sometimes I do forget, that we CAN survive alone. We do not really NEED anyone for moral support or anything.
And there are times that I realise that a person many act good in front of you but are waiting for the slightest opportunity to back stab you. I have been conditioned to KNOW things like that because my family has many enemies. Some people may think that I am paranoid but I have a "sense".
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